Haverhill Public Library

When a friend dies, a book for teens about grieving & healing, Marilyn E. Gootman, Ed.D

eng

Includes bibliographical references and index

illustrations

index present

non fiction

When a friend dies

bibliography

1080251673

Marilyn E. Gootman, Ed.D

a book for teens about grieving & healing

"The death of a friend is a wrenching event for anyone at any age and can spark feelings that range from sadness to guilt to anxiety. Teenagers especially need help coping with grief and loss. This sensitive book answers questions grieving teens often have, like "How should I be acting?" "How long will this last?" and "What if I can't handle my grief on my own?" The book also addresses the complicated emotions that can accompany the death of an acquaintance, as opposed to a close friend. The advice is gentle, non-preachy, and compassionate; recommended for parents and teachers of teens who have experienced a painful loss. This updated edition of a classic resource includes new quotes from teens as well as insights into losing a friend or an acquaintance in a school shooting or through other violence. The book also features updated resources and recommended reading, including information on suicide hotlines and other support for anyone in crisis."--Publisher's website

Foreword by Michael Stipe, singer/songwriter of R.E.M -- Introduction -- How can I stand the pain? -- Why can't I feel anything? -- How long will this last? -- Is it wrong to go to parties and have fun? -- How should I be acting? -- Will I be changed? -- What is "normal"? -- What if I hardly knew the person? -- How can I handle my feelings? -- How can I deal with my grief? -- How can I help myself heal? -- What if I can't handle my grief on my own? -- What if my friends start acting strange? -- How can I find a counselor or a therapist? -- How can I tell if a counselor or therapist can help me? -- Will I ever be okay again? -- Resources -- Recommended reading

juvenile